Ngenxa boy akuthethi ukuba ufuna umhla a kubekho inkqubela kunye abazali bakhe. Imihla kunye Us

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Nto ezikhethekileyoKwaye kubekho inkqubela uphumelele khange wasinikela de boy uyaya ukuba abazali bakhe kwaye ukucela imvume yabo? Ukuba angene elide budlelwane okanye umtshato phambi kokuba kubekho inkqubela iqala Dating. Kubonakala ukuba lo mfazi sele anticipating kwi ingqondo yakhe elide isakhono somhlaba budlelwane nabanye, umtshato, abantwana, njalo-njalo, nangona yena alifumanisanga nkqu zahlangana kuye kanti. Lowo kufuneka nihamba phantsi. Zama ukunika a Mature umntu imbono kwi ubomi kwaye bonisa indlela a ezinzima budlelwane imisebenzi. Uthi lento yintoni yena ingaba kuba kuye ebomini, kwaye yiyo yena ekwabelwana ngayo kunye nawe, kodwa lowo akuthethi ukuba wazi wonke kubekho inkqubela okokuba uya kuba njalo. Nkqu ukuba abe sele inikwa kude kubekho inkqubela, oko akuthethi ukuba isigqibo malunga elide isicwangciso marital ubudlelwane phakathi, njl. njl, yena akakwazi ukwazi uhlobo kubekho inkqubela iya kubanjalo. Kukho umahluko phakathi nokuqala budlelwane kwaye ucwangciso ngayo kunye. Ukuba wone zahlangana abazali bakhe, ke ngoku umele kuthi Ewe, ukufumana watshata, ukuba babe yinxalenye usapho, ukuthi ukuba ngenene ezinzima, kodwa ngaxeshanye, oko mentions a ngokucacileyo isitsho inzala kwi-Dating. ngoko ke, ingekuko kubo nkqu kuhlangatyezwana nazo kunye nokhuseleko.

Ezona kusenokwenzeka ukuba isizathu ndinako cinga kukuba boy ubona intlanganiso abazali bam njengokuba inyathelo lesi-kwiintlanganiso into ezininzi ezinzima kuno kufumaneka owenza okanye ukufumana watshata.

Ukuba waba ukucinga enjalo ntlanganiso, ngoko ke mhlawumbi akanguye ilungile kuba ngaphezulu ezinzima budlelwane. Ungafuna get ukwazi a kubekho inkqubela kakhulu ngcono phambi kokuba lugqiba ukuba get ukwazi lakhe lonke usapho okanye kuba lunxulumano eseyinkwenkwe yi-usapho lwakhe. Isizathu sesibini ukuba iza ingqondo kukuba lowo lwabonisa oku kubekho inkqubela kuba nokuzinikela, kodwa enyanisweni nguye ayisasebenzi ezinzima. Uyazazi ukuba abazali bakhe uya kufumana kuye kuba yakhe lies. Kanjalo fears ukuba umbuzo i-impendulo iseshoni babe kutyhila iinyaniso ukuba akazange umxelele kubekho inkqubela malunga. Zonke ndiza suggesting kukuba abazali benu kuza ngesiquphe kuye kwaye baya surprise kuye ukubona yakhe jikeleziso, kwaye ngoko uya kukwazi ukuba isaziso kakhulu. Mna ke i-AA i, nangona mna andazi ukuba ndiza nako ukwenza umntu ingxelo, ukususela kumbuzo ikhangeleka ibonakalisa yenkcubeko neeyantlukwano ukuba andikho abantu abaqhelekileyo kunye. Intlanganiso abazali bakho kuthetha ngakumbi usebenzisa ikhompyutha kunye mhlawumbi ukuvunywa kubudlelwane, nkqu ukuba ayithethi ukuba kukhokelela nantoni na ezinzima. Ngoko ke, ukuba boy akusebenzi ufuna ukuya kuhlangana kubekho inkqubela ke, abazali, ungathi, ukuba ukho koyika kubo. Oko unako kanjalo kuthetha ukuba yena uziva ngathi usasebenzisa ke phambi kwexesha kakhulu, kwaye ukuba lowo ufuna ukubona ukuba ubudlelwane kunye nawe ngu imathiriyali okanye hayi.

Kodwa lento nje wam speculation, kufuneka ucele kuye kutheni akanguye kakhulu eager ukuba nceda yakho bantu, kuya ngaphandle kwenu ixesha headaches xa wena funa umsebenzi lo mntu.

Eneneni, lo kakhulu ngokufanayo ingxaki phakathi isixhosa abafundi, kwaye zininzi izizathu oku. Uninzi isixhosa abafundi abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba isizathu sokuba kutheni baya kuba ubunzima uthetha ubizwa ngokuba, njengokuba uyazi, kubaluleke kakhulu inconvenient kuba abantwana ukugcina budlelwane nabanye bade baba ngaphezu Mature.

Kwaye xa ufuna umhla girls, abazali kufuneka ube ngakumbi ulawulo phezu zabo ukuziphatha, musa kuziphatha Kuyo akukho mazwi ayikwazi ukwenza thabatha impression kubukho abazali.

Ke ngoko, lowo ufuna uvimba amalungelo ngokwakhe kude kube lixesha iza xa yena akakwazi kuvakalisa ebb kwaye iitshati kunye kubekho inkqubela abo baya kufumana watshata.